My father didn’t want to live if he had dementia. But then he had it.

The number of Americans estimated to have Alzheimer’s or related forms of dementia is more than six million today and is projected to double in about 25 years. PHOTO: PEXELS
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It is hard to know in advance what kind of existence you will be contented with.

Two years ago, when my father was dying of dementia, my siblings and I faced a terrible dilemma: Whose wishes for his medical treatment were we to honour? Those of my father back when he was a healthy, highly functioning geneticist? Or those of the simpler, weakened man my father had become?

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